Have you ever asked yourself why should I bother helping others when I am buried in my own problems? Why should I take time for others if at the end people are not grateful for what you do for them? These and many other questions are what create a sense of selfishness and apathy in us. Selfishness is based on fear; fear to be disappointed, fear to stay behind when helping someone, fear of not being rewarded. If we give others based on what we’re going to get back, we’ll loose a great opportunity to know and meet someone’s need. Helping this way is frustrating and exhausting. When we help others or when we give a hand to the needy based on a genuine desire of serving, we will see our actions as a process of blessing lives and positively transform the history of a person . At that moment, we get our reward, and we’ll never be disappointed because we are not serving for what we can receive, but for becoming better leaders and agents of change . Also, a sense of humility is develop